NORMAL Differences!!!

Why is it when you don’t follow someones NORM something has to be wrong with YOU?

No two people are alike and we are not always going to want to do the same things.  So why  knock someone  because they are not always running the street and label them boring or prudish? Do you find them telling you that you’re irresponsible and ridiculous for never taking a seat.  No you probably don't because if that’s what you want to do it’s your choice. It has no effect on anyone but you and yours so why should any of us care.  Respect others choices as you would have them respect yours. It’s really quite that simple. Sometimes people need to take heed and just STFU even before they speak!

Ideal Love...Of Myself!

"Falling in love with an idea....praying it comes to pass....falling in love with an idea when in reality you know it won't last.  Take the chance it's worth it for the experience if nothing at all...I'd rather fall in love with the idea than to never have love at all!!" ~Yanna


So I wrote that a few weeks ago it kinda just landed into my head and i decided to put it on "paper"...Im by far no poet but what makes my thoughts any less important than anyone elses. 

Anywho...I've come to realize that letting go and letting in are both very hard lessons to learn sometimes. Waiting for a miracle to happen to make that rather large square peg fit into that extremely small round hole is a bitch. Sometimes we get comfortable in the what if's and what could be's and never allow ourselves to face the reality that we are in fact working on borrowed time that we happen to be wasting. Realizing that  every minute you spend waitng on him/her to get it together is a minute you will never be able to retreive and the result is always the same. He/She is just not ready,He/she is just not sure, so then what do you do? The signs are always there, its a matter of letting go of your security blanket even though its not comfortable your used to it. Let it go and venture out into whats standing in front of you. A lot of people block their blessings all because they are scared to try, scared that it wont work. How do you know if you never make the attempt?

So today my proverbial LIGHT BULB went off (I'm a lil slow sometimes but i be gettin it eventually...*giggles*)...I've decided to let go of what ive been holding on to for the sake of comfort and let in what i didn't want to for the fear of pain. So no more being the one you call when you want to unload your problems without ever returning the favor. Those days are so done...I'm too old to waste my life....

After All These Wings are made to FLY!!!

~Love Yanna~